Thursday, April 26, 2012

Using NLP to Overcome Barriers... by Mark J Holland NLP Mind Coach




NLP is a program that can be very helpful to individuals who have problems with their mental and physical communication skills. It stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming that opens the eyes of individuals to the importance of mental programming and efficient way to communicate with other people. Communication plays a great role in the success of every individual, and this is one of the facts which greatly explain the importance of NLP. It can help people to express themselves and to make other people understand them. Well, anyone wanted to be heard and understood especially if they wanted something that is really hard to acquire like a job that requires a good communication skills.


On the other hand, NLP has also great roles when it comes to conquering mental barriers. There are times when most individuals forbid themselves to speak or explain for themselves and prefer to just let other people judge them and say something for them. Well in fact, they can actually do a favor for themselves by being able to express their own. Thus, the following are some of the instances in which NLP could prove its great role when it comes to conquering mental barriers:


Cowardice in doing essential things in achieving the things that they wanted to achieve.


This can explain the best role of NLP in conquering mental barriers. It is fairly explainable why individuals become coward in expressing themselves through words especially if they have to talk to several individuals or especially if they have to owe something to a certain person. Well, what’s keeping them is their beliefs and fear of being rejected. NLP further explains that it is a fact that a person will not always receive praises once he speaks; and that should be accepted. Sometimes, he needs to receive rejections so he can further analyze his weakness. This could allow him to formulate alternative solutions for his self-improvement so that the next time around, he knows exactly the better approach to express himself. Oftentimes, with those rejections, he can become more creative and have essential ideas to be uttered sooner.


Fear of acquiring failures.


This fact is quite explainable since there is no one who will want failures in life. But if you will look on the positive side of life, you will probably realize that a normal individual greatly needs failures to gain courage and guts to face all the challenges along their way. Neuro Linguistic Programming further explains to people how they will have mental setup so they can get the things that they wanted. At the same time, they can perfectly figure out how they will face or take failures in a way that can be helpful to them. This way, they can further avoid mental barriers that involve their confidence and courage to venture in the world that they wanted to be.


It can make people go out of their shells with their chins up.


Most individuals usually failed once they have to speak for themselves in front of
several people because they are too shame to do so. NLP can greatly help those individuals by enabling them to go out of their shells with their chins up. Meaning they can face crowd and further speak for themselves without any barriers, not even mentally, nor emotionally. It is explainable why some people are having a hard time in speaking for themselves since they may have had previous experiences that make their hesitations grow. This is where NLP can be of great help to individuals since it can make people gradually face their fears and hesitations.


Once you believe that you are facing those drawbacks in yourself then you can consider having NLP training or you can at least make a thorough search about what this training and program is all about. This way, you can develop some of its principles in you in any case you prefer. Somehow, learning various facts all by your self can be fairly beneficial considering that trainings and program participation these days are expensive.


Nevertheless, this is not to imply that you don’t have to spend something in developing the teachings or the principles of NLP. Of course, there are instances that you should still have to. The bottom line is that, you have to search for instances that can enable you to save money in learning from it. As much as possible, you will need guts, skill, and knowledge once you prefer to learn things by yourself. Now, if you think that you have those then by all means you can achieve almost everything that you wanted to achieve in life.


It is all what it takes, therefore you will still need to assess yourself whether you will need NLP training or you can have it by yourself. Always keep in mind that if you wanted accurate assessment then you must do it for your own self since no one can assess the things for you but you, yourself.



Regards



Mark J Holland

If you enjoyed this article, then perhaps you would like to learn more about NLP. It's a powerful system of tools and techniques that can help you enhance your life and the lives of others. To learn more about NLP courses, approved by the American University of NLP, go here: NLP Practitioner Certification Courses

For more information about setting up a One-On-One Skype or Telephone NLP Mind Coaching Session with NLP Mind Coach Mark J Holland Visit: http://www.nlpmindcoach.com  


No comments: